|Image from The Road to Me|
What you own belongs to you and if it does then you can do with it what you like. This is a good way to deal with sadness.
Sadness isn't always a bad thing. Behind every sadness is always a story of loss but also of love.
Somewhere I read that if you feel grief then it's only because you have known love. That is a really good thing. Many people don't know love and, even worse, don't know how to love.